He did not want to go to bed with me after the wedding how to do
text: Su Qin
I am 25 years old, the first attempt to fall in love, their length is of medium level, because in the past are always hard to study, and not love, after graduating from college, my mother has been urging me to get married, but he did not love the experience, did not dare to take the first step of love. This year, students are introduced to one of her brothers I know, He is 29 years old, is a teacher , we first met, he said, like me, we went to a park, he was kissing me, my first kiss, and it was the first time met a guy took. was it hard too, but they felt so big also want to be kissed, and later to have been in touch with him. third meeting, he was insatiable in my unprepared, he asked for me, that was my first time, then I pain for a week, he did not call me first, all I called him because I am a very traditional girl, that gives this person must be married to this person, so I first hit to him. After four days, we met again, I was thinking is to make their own pregnancy, a relationship he had any connection with, done, he was afraid I was pregnant, that does not want a child soon, the economy can not afford to buy a pill for me, but I really do not want to eat, he do not eat I will be more painful, he will pain, so I decided to give him. After a week, he hit my phone, I changed numbers , he can not play, but they do not really want to give up their own him, I contacted him, and his first words were happy he was to say this because before I have relations with him, I have been let go, a week later, I think a lot, is not you really let loose, to catch this man? on the day before Valentine's Day I let go of the mentality of a relationship, he said that for the first time a relationship with me so comfortable while doing it occasionally when I say something to encourage him, until I can not speak of. The next day I go home, go home I phoned him, he did not then, I sent a text message telling him I got home, but until now have not back to my information, did not return my calls.
done each time , he is very considerate to me, pour me to drink, chatted with me for a long time. We have met a total of more than 5 times, took place between 3 times. I test him before his parents did not acknowledge my girlfriend But he did not admit in front of them, his parents had been urging him to go blind, he said he did not go, but did not speak with the parents that he has a girlfriend. We went to open each meeting room, done after to talk a lot, I do not know if this is love, I do not know if he has in front of his colleagues recognize my girlfriend. the face of such a man, I'm no policy, did not get in my body, he speak that day to get married, get back, he said that we know enough about each other. follow him on the way back he was never affectionate look at me, only in sex, he would see me, I am This man does not understand.
I said someone told me to marry him, and he brings to see me, they do not talk to him, he did not seem to me the human being, I really do not know that the people can not continue. Valentine's Day Even a phone call with information are not.
I did not love the experience too, and just want to find a marriage, that he can marry, so the only contact with him, and now I like him, but he made me these acts do not know how to face him, and really do not like him? love the two-month period, he did not admit that I was his girlfriend. But the most valuable for the first time but that he had taken the hh
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Su Qin replies:
no such men can not understand, he was not really love you, but he needs you, you know, a twenty-year-old man, if you do not have a regular sex partner , and he is very tough.
So, the first time we met, he would kiss you, it is extremely out of love, courtesy, after all, a stranger before. It stands to reason, as a girl, after a kind of ; first meeting You will think this is a tacit approval of his actions. but for a first love, girls, met three times to sacrifice, apparently a little too fast a pace. But no way, Who where you lack experience.
stand on any position of a bystander point of view, do not think he loves you, just met five times, three times are in bed, obviously he is holding to identify the purpose of sexual intercourse with you. If he really a very in good faith, not to you as this step also invisible, refusing to introduce you to family and friends, especially now that his parents are also being urged him dear to marry, he would rather their parents do not want to press you to move out, we can see He just put you as spare tire, if in future a more beautiful woman meet, do not expect him to loyalty to you.
think, you know he do?
I think you do not know him. In addition to his work and the basic family, you have no depth to his attention. If you really want to grab him, at least under the efforts to make good on a comprehensive understanding of him: his personal preferences His past love affair, his merits weaknesses, his future life more detailed understanding of the concept of hh, the more that can help you develop an effective operational plan. Since you do not feel closer to the wedding hall will be the pain he harder and harder, it should from now on, cheer up, do not always blindly followed his act, things will only say a ; not His freshness of your long, otherwise, every time his request is met no suspense, and soon he'll lose interest.
Also, did you know that introduce students, you should also take to inquire into the situation with him inquire. to find ways to put an end to their spread the news you want to really get him, since you have established a clear relationship between the parents must let him know that you exist.
love there are always small to large long in a vacuum, the good girl repeatedly encountered difficulties, yes, with people is a learned skill, to know how to understand other people's thoughts to control other people's thoughts, can really get a complete love. These knowledge, the school is not learn to stay in life, and slowly to realize it.
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